Thursday, February 14, 2008

My sister...

i actually wanted to put up photos of cny n be nostalgic abt the whole thing, but this issue came up juz b4 i came to write.

my sis thinks tt i don't put family 1st. she feels tt i undermind the family, tt i always put my frens b4 family. she says tt her grilling me abt this is her way of trying to understand why i am like tt....while on the other hand i am trying to understand why does she always have to pick on me.

this time it was over some issues of the photos tt ben took in hk wif daddy. honestly, i felt some of the photos were nt very impt, so i rolled my eyes when she wanted me to copy them all over to ben's comp. then she went all defensive n started to say tt i cannot do this to other ppl's things. she walked away...then coming back within 3 mins to grill me again when i have started to do what she wanted me to do. she said...blah blah blah.....(one ear in...n out the other ear) and concluded tt i don't love this family.

i mean i admit tt i was quite bad of me to not take all of ben's photos seriously, but to do this over n over again. i had to stand up for myself. so i asked her what makes her think tt i don't treat them like family. it is this whole thing where different pple show love in different ways. i love her, but yet i "hate" her all at the same time.

There are days where i love having a sis like her, but i feel tt sometimes she takes things too litreally n she keps dwelling on it over n over n over again....ahhhhh....let it go!!!!!

now 30mins later our heated moment she is back to normal again....but tt's how siblings are...hate them n love them all at the same time.

despite all of these...below are the photos of cny:

the center piece on our dinning table

me n jie jie...when i love her

and again...

us being silly

look who is sleeping...on the 1st day of cny

adding ben into the pic

jie jie n her future husband

the poker table

the majong table

consuming fire fan into flames

Luanie_____shone with a magical smile
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